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Jan 10, 2020 07:31
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Meg
Female
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
Sorry if your dinner has already started.
How exciting!
The main things I made sure to do were:
1. Make eye contact
2. Be polite
3. Respond cheerfully
4. Match the gentleman’s pace of eating
5. Show my appreciation—he chose me out of hundreds of women
That’s about it, I think.
I hope you have a wonderful time♪
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who goes by “Paper Airplane.”
Men are choosing someone who matches their preferences out of hundreds of women, so when a man is happy, compliments you, or takes a liking to you, he genuinely means it. Please don’t dismiss his words as flattery that he says to everyone—just be happy to hear them.
There have even been times when I was so delighted to meet someone that I was genuinely surprised by how happy I felt in that moment.
Other
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
“Stay humble and cheerful, and be clear with the numbers.”
I’d love to hear your thoughts.
Wishing you a wonderful date.
P.S.
How did it go????? What was the result?
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
The two things I pay attention to are:
1. When the overall impression I get at our first meeting differs from the impression in her photos.
In photos and videos, she may come across as highly motivated, cheerful, and fresh. Even if she seems cheerful and pleasant in person, whenever I’ve felt that something was different from the image I had in mind, things never ended well afterward.
2. When she subtly avoids the point whenever I ask her questions during our conversation.
I take that as a strong sign that she wants to keep the relationship superficial and uncommitted—something that could be ended at any time without causing any trouble. Since I chose her from among hundreds of women, that’s not the kind of relationship I’m looking for.
Those are the two main things.