I’m a female member and joined about three months ago.
Whenever I receive an introduction, I usually look at the gentleman’s profile. However, the man I was recently introduced to didn’t have a profile posted, which made me wonder: Is there a particular reason some men choose not to make their profiles public?
Is it simply up to each man’s personal preference?
I would appreciate any insight. Thank you.
Maezawa from the Business Planning Office here as well.
> Is it simply a matter of personal choice for the men?
Originally, there was no male profile feature. Some men who joined before it was introduced may be wondering, “Why do I have to make my profile public?”
Also, whether or not to make a profile public is optional, so many men choose not to. There’s also a setting that allows them to show their profile only to women they’ve made an offer to. So even if a man doesn’t appear in regular searches, some men can be viewed after they’ve sent you an offer.
As other respondents have said, men who don’t use that feature and whose profiles still can’t be viewed after they’ve sent an offer are probably arrogant or simply too lazy to bother. Even if you meet them, there’s a high chance they’ll treat you the same way.
So if you’re a woman receiving a decent number of offers, you can choose to turn down offers from men like that.
If you aren’t receiving many offers, you may not feel you have the option to decline. However, preparing yourself mentally in advance may help you handle the situation.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Whether or not to make their profile public is entirely up to each male member.
I imagine the reasons some choose not to make theirs public include:
1. They feel the overview already provided by the club is sufficient.
2. There’s nothing particularly noteworthy to add.
3. They prefer not to share too many details.
4. They simply can’t be bothered to write one.
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I’m Seattle, a male member.
When I joined, I wrote a lot in my profile, hoping it would help women prepare themselves and give us something to talk about. I’ve also made my photos public, but I haven’t edited anything since then. I’m practically unemployed anyway, so I don’t see any particular problem with making it public.
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I’m Saito♪, a column writer.
Like the other answers, if I had to give one reason why I make my profile public, it’s so I can share as much information as possible before we meet that day. Hopefully, that can ease women’s worries, even just a little, and turn them into feelings of anticipation.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
My profile views have stayed at zero, so I figure that if the view count is showing, my profile must be public.
Since it’s still at zero, I’ve just left everything as it was, thinking there’s no need to do anything. It’s still in its original state.
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