I’m a Type C female member.
It’s already been a month since I registered.
I still haven’t received a single offer.
As a woman over 30 who’s on the heavier side,
does that mean I’m not likely to catch the attention of male members?
I’ve uploaded several selfies.
I also change the comments section from time to time.
I’m not sure what kind of photos would catch someone’s eye
and make them interested in me...
I’ve reached the point where I don’t know what else to do.
I’d really appreciate any advice.
If there are any female members who think, “Something like this might work,”
I’d be grateful for your suggestions as well. m(_ _)m
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
I thought Maezawa’s answer really hit the mark.
When it comes to dieting, if you’re looking for a quick fix, I recommend fasting. Rather than trying it on your own, it’s better to go for a week or so to a specialized facility, like one in Izu.
It’s actually much better than you might imagine. It helps regulate your autonomic nervous system, and for a brief moment, you find yourself reflecting, “I really didn’t need to eat that much.” Haha.
These days, fasting retreats also offer plenty of beauty treatments and hot springs, so they’re practically like luxury nursing homes.
They’re great for a refreshing getaway.
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I’m Hikōki, a male member.
How about updating your selfies roughly every 10 days by deleting the oldest one first—or re-uploading the same photo if you can’t delete it?
I also think it’s easier for people to get a sense of you if your photos include a variety of good expressions: a smile, a flattering serious look, and something playful and dynamic.
New comments and private photos appear on the homepage when they’re updated, and I do look at the private photos.
I’m not particularly concerned about bust size, whether it’s an A cup or larger, so there may be people who are fairly accepting of different body types too…
That said, I personally prefer slender women, so as others have mentioned, I suppose losing weight would be the quickest way to get closer to that ideal.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
This may sound harsh, but there are women who receive offers even if they’re overweight.
However, they’re a small minority, and in most cases, they receive offers because they have some other trait that attracts men.
There are also plenty of women of average weight who don’t receive offers. Even so, if you want to compete on an equal footing with them, I think you’ll need to make a firm commitment and go on an intense diet.
Aim for the 40-kilogram range. I think you should try aiming for 49 kg.
If you do, your world may change.
Losing weight is difficult, but perhaps this is also the moment to ask yourself whether you want offers badly enough to overcome that difficulty—or whether you simply don’t feel that strongly about it.
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I’m Seattle, a male member.
There’s a lot of competition from guys around 20.
There are very few Type E members, so they’re rare and might be worth targeting.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Men’s preferences vary widely, and while I can’t say exactly what’s causing it, I think you could try:
1. Expanding your opportunities to meet people beyond Universe.
2. Taking part in events and being proactive about making the first move yourself.
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