I've met a woman nearly 10 times, but she's never once called me by my name. She knows my real name,...

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I've met a woman nearly 10 times, but she's never once called me by my name. She knows my real name, so I feel a little lonely. Is that just the kind of person she is?

斉藤さんだぞ♪ · Answer

I’m Saito, a column writer♪

Maybe you’re getting confused because you’re talking to so many other men too? lol

That’s just one possible opinion, though.

On the other hand, women sometimes send messages like “Ah” or just “♡” without including a name, so unless I change their contact name right away, I end up forgetting who they are and stop talking to them. lol

前澤 · Answer

Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.

I think that’s just the kind of person he is.

Still, I feel like if you ask him to call you by your name, he probably will.

フラグメーカー · Answer

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.

That does sound lonely.
I’m just speculating, but maybe not calling her by her name is also a kind of emotional barrier for her^^;
Surprisingly, calling someone by their name can be a pretty big hurdle.

> To Mac:
Thanks for recommending my column, haha.

西中 恵 · Answer

I’m Meg, one of the female members.

That must feel lonely.

Rather than being a personality issue, he may feel that calling someone older by their first name would be disrespectful. He may also be unsure whether to call you by your club name or your real name.

How about casually telling him something like, “I’d be happy if you called me this,” without worrying about being too considerate?

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