I’m Saito♪, a column writer.
I read Seattle’s post, and it really made me think, “That’s so true…”
Sometimes, the women who disappear in an instant turn out to be the most wonderful ones. lol
A long, long time ago, I was introduced to a certain singer. I spent about a week agonizing over how high her introduction fee was, and she was gone in the blink of an eye.
Every year when I watch Kōhaku, I deeply regret it, thinking, “Why didn’t I say yes immediately back then?”
Actually, it was the biggest mistake I’ve ever made in my history with dating clubs.
When you think it, go for it right away.
Even if her price later drops to a more modest level, you shouldn’t chase a woman whose value has declined.
Let’s be bold and go for it.
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
If you spend too much time trying to pick the perfect moment, the woman may leave the service before you know it.
Once she’s gone, it’s too late to regret not making a move.
If you like someone, I recommend making an offer right away.
It’s probably better to start playing the waiting game after you’ve actually met.
I’m a male member who goes by Paper Airplane.
I tend to click and have the most fun—and feel the most comfortable—with women who are also on their first date with me, so I still meet them most often. (And that applies to the way things develop with women other than my first-date partners as well.)
Women who have only recently joined, and are close to their first date, are more likely to lead to a natural-feeling connection, though you still need to be cautious since some can turn out completely opposite.
With women who have been around longer, the relationship is likely to be more relaxed.
Since they tend to receive fewer offers, women who have been around longer may invite you themselves, respond well to messages, and make you feel valued. So even if you don’t meet very often—or the man isn’t especially interested—you’re more likely to stay connected.
P.S. Also, as Papwa wrote, women who have only recently joined but start thinking, “Dating an older man after meeting him in person sounds like too much work,” or “There’s no way I’m only getting 10,000 yen for dinner,” and begin to lose interest in the club are, ironically, often easier to win over.
Women who have just joined are more likely to meet frequently and continue seeing you. They also often come to the man for advice about various things, which can be very rewarding.
I’m a male member in Seattle.
As expected, it’s first come, first served. Some women disappear almost immediately, too.
