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Jan 5, 2020 13:00
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I’m Saito, the column writer ♪
As everyone has pointed out, I don’t know how much the rent was.
I was reminded of a woman from a certain Universe Black–ranked club and salon who told me she had been living in a Minato Ward apartment arranged by her papa. But because of his controlling behavior and constant messages, she threw everything away, ended things, and moved out.
Still, even in a situation like that, she’d look for another man. If she were an ordinary woman, that is.
That salon woman continued seeing me, too, even while she had an exclusive contract with the papa who arranged the apartment...
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’ll answer as Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office as well.
Reply that you understand.
I think you should continue looking for other papa (male supporters).
If someone else who could become your papa comes along, you can then decide how to handle the conversation about not taking on another papa.
Even if having another papa isn’t allowed, I think it’s fine to keep looking.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> What do you think about an offer along the lines of, “I’ll cover your entire rent while you’re in school, but don’t see any other papas”?
If you’re capable of paying your own rent without relying on a papa, I think it may be worth accepting the offer. It would free up the money you’ve been spending on rent for other uses.
That said, you should also confirm whether the only condition for having your rent covered is that you don’t have any other papas.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Even outside a club, it’s not unusual for a papa (a male supporter) to pay six months’ or even a year’s worth of rent upfront, so I don’t think you need to worry about it at all—just accept it.
From the man’s perspective, staying connected even without meeting is like having a safety net (and lets him enjoy the feeling of having a girlfriend). During that time, he’s also free to do as he likes. Plus, knowing he can meet her whenever he wants over a long period has plenty of benefits for him as well.
“Don’t get a papa” is probably just a polite, social nicety, so I really don’t think you need to take it seriously.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member from Seattle.
If the rent is around ¥200,000, you could choose to go along with that.
Or you could quietly find another papa (a male supporter) on the side.