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Jan 5, 2020 12:39
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I keep making offers to women who are way out of my league because I want to get my heart broken.
What unforgettable heartbreak have you experienced through dating?
I suspect there are quite a few secret enthusiasts out there…
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I’m Saito, a column writer ♪
You must have a very strong mindset. I get the impression that things are going well for you at work and that you’re living a life that goes more or less according to plan…
I’d love to have a roundtable discussion with you someday, once you’ve grown even stronger.
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m column writer Flagmaker.
I kind of understand how you feel. When you’re completely crushed after a breakup, standing in the rain without even opening an umbrella can feel strangely cathartic.
But what really feels good is losing after you’ve given it your all, fully intending to win.
Quite a while ago, Antonio Inoki said this to an interviewer before a match:
“Who’d be stupid enough to think about losing before they even step into the ring?!”
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Given my age and looks, I only make offers to women who might actually be willing to date me, so our assumptions about the offer are different and I can’t really say much about it.
Still, challenging something difficult right from the start sounds kind of fun(笑)
I like the “give it a shot and see what happens” mentality too. The Greater East Asia War, which ended in failure because of that kind of idealistic thinking, is famous.
Since a one-way ticket is essentially my life itself, I think there’s nothing wrong with charging headfirst at someone out of my league.
As a Japanese man, part of me even wants to go out in a blaze of glory(笑)
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
I understand joining a club to heal from heartbreak, but I’m not really sure what “heartbreak” means in this context.
Are you saying you had a passionate romance with someone who was out of your league and then got dumped?
If not, it sounds more like setting your sights too high, unrequited love, or simply not being able to measure up…
It seems like there may be better ways to enjoy yourself.