But when I think about it, this jealousy may just be an illusion.
After all, this is the world of dating clubs.
Still, it hurts.
Is there anything I can do?
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here, with an answer as well.
> Is there anything I can do?
Once you start seeing multiple women, you tend to become less jealous—or at least it bothers you much less.
I think it might help to look for other women you could make offers to as well.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
As long as you don’t cause trouble for the other person, why not try enjoying the fact that you’re jealous?
You probably don’t often come across someone who can make you feel that conflicted in your everyday life.
In a way, isn’t it a blessing to have someone like that—someone you can worry over?
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I’m Joe, a column writer.
It looks like all the answers are already in, but I just had to share one heartfelt thought:
“Your jealousy is an illusion!”
That said, even an illusion can become reality if it continues long enough, can’t it? It must be painful. I completely understand.
Personally, though, I think jealousy is the charm of dating clubs. If there’s anything else that makes them special, I’d love to hear about it.
Anyway, I’m off—I’m having sex with my favorite, Mai, for the first time this year tomorrow.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
As a man, I completely understand the feeling of jealousy.
If you want to indulge that feeling, making a woman jealous can be one thing. But when a man who belongs to a dating club gets jealous, his feelings may end up driving the woman away instead.
If you think of it as her simply spending time with you as part of her work, during her working hours, you probably won’t feel particularly jealous…
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I’m date◎yume, a male member.
I don’t really understand why I should be jealous.
Also, I’m not sure what exactly you’re jealous of.
I’d appreciate it if you could be a little more specific.
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I’m Saito, a column writer♪
You should make another woman a three-times-higher offer and keep things vague. There are plenty of other wonderful women out there.
You are absolutely not the one and only among 8,000 people.
That’s a misunderstanding.
There’s someone even more wonderful.
There always is.
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