A question for those who are married or in a relationship: overnight dates

I’m Joe, a columnist. I’ll answer on the assumption that you’re traveling together. ① Since my work involves a lot of business trips, it’s easy to come up with a plausible excuse. ② I travel both domestically and internationally, but especially when going abroad, I generally arrange to meet and part ways at the destination. I don’t think anything good comes from being together the entire time. Also, it’s best to discuss the allowance in advance. ③ To avoid getting caught, I recommend following point ②. Especially when traveling abroad, don’t forget to buy souvenirs for your family. I hope you have a wonderful trip.

I’m Kamihikoki, a male member. It seems difficult unless you’ve already laid the groundwork by mentioning trips or business travel. I think she’d be much happier if you were more generous with the travel expenses and allowance! Apparently, she won’t find it all that exciting if you only give her a daily allowance. P.S. I have a friend who travels almost every weekend, targeting ship and airline crew members. He successfully found a young crew member, and whenever they take long overseas trips together, he pays the travel expenses for one of his male classmates so the three of them can travel together. Back when I was traveling overseas with that friend almost every week, whenever I traveled with her, his friends would pick me up at home, greet my family, and drive me to the airport. Then the two of us would enjoy an overseas trip together. I think you need to establish a routine in everyday life where your wife doesn’t call or ask you to send photos, no matter where you are—and where you don’t send her photos from your trips either.

I’m Saito, the column writer♪ Ah, same as Mac. I’ll bring the other women along too.