I'm considering ending things with my monthly papa (a male supporter) who keeps wanting to go without protection.
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What can I say that will get through to a papa who tries to do it anyway, saying, “Just a little,” even when I tell him I don't want to?
If he won't listen when I sweetly say no, would it be better to get a little angry, even if it ruins the mood?
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> If he still won’t listen when I cutely tell him no, would it be better to get a little angry, even if it ruins the mood?
If being cute about it doesn’t work, I think it’s better to be a little more forceful.
That said, if you’re absolutely unwilling to compromise, he may decide to look for someone else. So you need to be prepared for the possibility that the relationship may end.
It sounds like the two of you simply haven’t found the right match for each other. If you can’t compromise on what you want, then ending things would be the sensible choice. If it’s truly impossible, you’ll probably both be better off parting ways.
However, if you’d be willing to compromise because he’s a good person—for example, if he increased your allowance—then discussing that possibility with him may be worth considering.
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This is Saito♪, the column writer.
A woman once told me that if you angrily say, “I really mean it—stop,” three times, a man will never have unprotected sex with you again.
(I personally wouldn’t do it unprotected even after being told once.)
Or, as Mac suggested, why not pretend that you might be pregnant?
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I’m Seattle, a male member.
Tell him with a serious look, “I’m willing to take the pill despite the risks, so please double the allowance to an amount you’d be satisfied with.”
But don’t let things happen by default. Whatever you do, make sure it’s by mutual consent.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
I’m sorry to say this, but it doesn’t seem like the man you’re seeing treats you with much consideration.
Also, do you really want to be involved with someone like that just for the allowance?
If it were me, I’d say goodbye, believing that a more gentlemanly man would surely make me an offer.
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