I’ve kept moving from one woman to the next, always looking for someone just a little better. After six years, I’ve reached a point where it’s hard to find anyone beyond that level, and I’ve been stuck for nearly a year. Should I stop looking for someone “better” and explore a different direction instead? I’d appreciate the opinions of male members who have reached this stage.

I’m Saito, a columnist ♪ Like you, I’ve been wandering through dating clubs for years. But there’s no end to how high you can go—there are no limits in the heavens. Are you on good terms with dating clubs that don’t prepare the next option for you? Haven’t you received complaints from women who have ended up being treated as lower-tier? I’m struggling with women who demand frighteningly high introduction fees, as well as with my own thoughts. My motivation keeps rising and falling. Every single time, it’s the women who give me the initial spark. I’ll be waiting for you to calm down and come back again.

I’m Kami Hikoki, a male member. I’m not sure this answers your question, but I have a longtime friend—a true veteran in this world—who is a genius at finding one after another women in their 40s and 50s, including housewives who work at restaurants or as cabin crew. If they work at a restaurant, he can simply visit whenever he wants a meal; if they work on ships or airplanes, he can use those services repeatedly whenever he wants. His drive never ceases to amaze me. Wait… After writing all this, did you mean “higher” in terms of level, not age? My apologies m(._.)m But still… If you’ve been doing this for six years and still can’t find satisfaction, perhaps the problem may actually be on your end… Even though it can be this much fun… If you meant a higher level, then I don’t feel like answering anymore… Since no one else had replied, I was going to offer some thoughts in the hope that they might at least give you a hint, but I guess that wasn’t what you meant… P.S. Making women happy is what fulfills men. I feel that constantly switching from one woman to another is rather presumptuous. I believe you only come to understand all the wonderful things about a woman after cherishing her for a long time…