I’ve gotten somewhat tired of the convenience of paying for beautiful women, so lately I’ve been making a bit of an effort to find them on my own again.
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I’m middle-aged, so it doesn’t go as smoothly as it used to, but somehow that difficulty makes it fun.
It’s like being happy to spend an entire day catching a fish that you could buy for 500 yen at the supermarket, at ten times the cost. But when you think about the return on life, isn’t doing it yourself ultimately the best?
I’m a BB7 male member.
If the rewards you get in life come from your own efforts rather than from the club, and you enjoy it that way, then that’s the right choice for you. I think you should go with it.
This isn’t really a question or a brag—you just wanted to say it, right? Or maybe you wanted people to agree and say, “Yeah, exactly”?
Getting things on your own is too much of a hassle for me, so I don’t do it anymore, but I do think it’s a valid option.
Best of luck.
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I thought about leaving it hidden, but Papuwa’s answer almost made me laugh out loud, so I decided to show it after all. (笑)
It’s true—there really are “creatures” who show up regularly just to brag. I hadn’t noticed until it was pointed out, but it really is a mystery.
Maybe this is the one place where bragging actually feels worthwhile, since someone will take the time to answer.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male club member.
I completely understand how you feel.
At the club, things that might take one, two, or even five years—or longer—can be achieved in just ten days or a month.
As Romanee mentioned, it’s like a stocked fishing pond, so you’re guaranteed to catch something.
That in itself is wonderful and valuable.
And meeting the number-one beauty who naturally matches your preferences is precious too.
Neither is easy to give up, and I think both are necessary for enjoying life to the fullest!
As for doing things on your own as well, I think it makes for a good balance: enjoying the club while also meeting people independently. I hope you have fun!
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I’m Saito, a columnist ♪
It’s complicated, but if I wanted to find someone on my own, I could do so easily. I use a dating club for a slightly different reason.
Separate from that, I also think having the time and emotional space to devote to someone is the ultimate luxury. I completely agree.
Personally, I don’t feel that time spent that way is more worthwhile than working or pursuing personal growth, which is why I use a dating club. I suppose it’s different for everyone.
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