Tips Jan 1, 2020 09:36

I’m a female member and feeling uneasy, so I wanted to ask.

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We set a date to meet, and about a week later he messaged me on LINE asking, “What time would you be able to meet that day?” I immediately replied, “I can meet at [time].” Since then, he’s read the message but hasn’t replied. It’s been about another week now. Is it okay to assume that we’re meeting at the time I suggested? I’m not completely sure, so I’m thinking of messaging him about a day before we meet to ask, “Is [time] okay?” Would that be all right?
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. If the date you’ll meet has already been set and only the time hasn’t been finalized yet, I think it probably means that time works for him, but there’s still a chance it could change due to work or other commitments. With that in mind, if you send a confirmation email the day before, you should be able to find out whether that time is confirmed or might shift a little.
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I’m Saito, a column writer ♪ He may also be coordinating with many other women, so there are cases where he’s okay with the arrangement at that point but hasn’t replied yet. I think confirming the day before should be fine. That said, I don’t have much information about the surrounding circumstances, so for now, all I can say is that contacting him the day before should be okay. Is the location all right?
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I’m Hikoki, a male member. I think that probably means that time works for him. If the time didn’t work, he likely would have already messaged you on LINE. I’m not sure why there are such long gaps between your LINE messages, but why not try messaging him a little more freely from your side? With gaps that long, it seems difficult for things to progress or continue. Men are usually very happy to receive messages from women, so unless you’re sending them every day or several times a day, I think you can message him at whatever pace feels natural to you. P.S. Men often try to match a woman’s pace so they don’t come across as pushy, so if they miss the right moment to message, it can actually become harder for them to reach out. If they don’t hear from her, they may find it even harder to send a message. I think most men would be more than happy to receive lots of messages from a woman.
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