Tips Jan 1, 2020 05:04

I’m a Type C in terms of dating preferences. I like sex (penetration and nipple stimulation), but I dislike kissing, blowjobs, and cunnilingus. Is that strange? I genuinely can’t do them, even with people I didn’t meet through a dating club, and it’s causing me trouble.

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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. People are all different, so I don’t think it’s particularly strange. I imagine the problem is that once things progress into an adult relationship (intimate), the other person may take it for granted or expect it. If you explain that beforehand, things will usually be fine. That said, you should make it clear that it’s not okay even if you were lovers, or there’s a good chance they’ll misunderstand.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. If it’s a Type C arrangement with no kissing, doesn’t it feel like it’s basically just paid companionship? (What’s the difference?) Am I the only one who thinks that? If you’re still uncomfortable with kissing when the moment comes, I imagine many men would be disappointed.
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I’m Joe, the column writer. As everyone says, it’s not strange. That said, in Joe’s case, I’d be disappointed if she disliked kissing. I imagine quite a few other male members feel the same way. So why not subtly let her know your preferences?
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I’m Saito, a column writer ♪ I think it’s fine for everyone to do what works for them.
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I’m a male member, Seattle. Everyone’s different, so I think it’s best to put your preferences in your profile—that way, neither of you has to hold back on the day. Personally, I’m not that into giving blowjobs. I do like cunnilingus, though, so I’d be happy to do that. I’m pretty indifferent about kissing. Brushing your teeth—and using something like Mintia during the encounter—is important too.
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