Sorry for asking another question汗 Men tell me things like, “I’d love it if you sent me some photos. I want to see your face more,” and I’m happy to hear that, so I send them photos—but why do they ultimately never meet me? Why do they want photos so badly? Why don’t they want to meet even after seeing my photos? I don’t understand how men think, so could someone please explain it to me?
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I’ve seen posts on Twitter from hostesses talking about customers who message them constantly, saying they’ll come to the club, but never actually show up. Is this the same kind of psychology?
Also, do some men misuse the photos, or show them to their other friends to make fun of me?
Sorry if I’m completely off the mark. I’d really like to learn, so I’d appreciate your answers!
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On a general dating app, if no photo has been uploaded, a man would probably ask you to send one so he can get an idea of what you look like.
If he then decides not to meet you, I’d assume you simply weren’t his type.
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I’m Papihikōki, a male member.
I honestly don’t understand at all why a man would want me to send him photos. I can’t see any reason why I’d need to send one just because he asked me to…
In the past, a girl once emailed me saying, “I’ll send you a photo when I go to ○○.” I was incredibly happy and excited, wondering, “I wonder when it’ll come? Is she serious? Will she actually send it?”
When that lovely photo really did arrive, I was absolutely thrilled.
But that was because she sent it of her own accord. I just can’t understand a man asking me to send him a photo… I might understand it a little more if he said, “Let’s take a photo together while we’re together,” but even that would take quite a bit of courage.
So it seems completely different from simply asking why someone won’t come to the establishment. Whether it’s for some kind of misuse or whatever, it just doesn’t feel normal to me.
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I’m a male member based in Seattle.
If he wants to see your photos, maybe his interest in continuing the relationship hasn’t completely faded. Since you’re very beautiful, he may simply want to admire you like a work of art.
Tell him you’ll give him the photos when he meets you, and keep him waiting for a while.
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