If you’re not beautiful, even if you pass the interview and get registered, you may only have one or two chances to receive an offer, right?

Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. I’m not exactly sure what Paper Airplane means by: > You’re very good at answering when asked how much you want. > Have you often experienced that men will pay without limit if they really like you? Many women give answers that leave a good impression because they seem to think so. But I do think it’s better to be able to answer that way. For example, if you can tell that the man is genuinely a good person, it may be a good idea to leave the allowance amount up to him. Of course, if your judgment is off, there’s a risk that you’ll end up with a very low allowance. In that case, I hope you’ll work on getting better at judging men. If you can identify a good man, you should still receive a proper allowance using the approach mentioned above. Then, once he starts to like you, he may buy you presents, and I think you’ll ultimately be able to receive even more.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. When a woman you like tells you that she’d like to continue seeing you, it’s very easy for a man to understand, and it often leads to a long-term arrangement. Women tend to be slower to respond or harder to read, so expressing those feelings can help lead to continued meetings. Also, if you’re hoping to continue, I think it’s important to set and communicate your desired allowance appropriately. For three or four meetings, I don’t mind paying a little more, but beyond that, unless she’s truly exceptional, it’s hard to want to continue if the allowance is too high. Women who don’t want to meet again or continue the arrangement tend to name a particularly high amount. I simply don’t meet them a second time. On the other hand, the women I like the most are probably used to being popular with men, because they’re very good at answering when asked about their desired allowance. Perhaps they’ve experienced the fact that men can pay without limit when they really like someone; in any case, many of them give answers that leave a very positive impression. In that respect, whether a man usually gives more than the amount requested or only pays exactly that amount makes a difference. If he tends to give more, saying a slightly lower amount leaves a better impression. I think it’s worth giving some thought to how you answer.

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. I agree with the gentleman known as “壮絶パパ活紳士.” In addition, I think you should really understand why the men making offers chose you—and why you were chosen—and respond to the man in front of you accordingly. In short, being seen as a good person and cute is more than enough. It’s also important to agree on an allowance that he can comfortably afford. If he feels that seeing you is easy and enjoyable, the arrangement is more likely to continue long-term. Rather than constantly looking for new men who may or may not come along, waiting for an ATM that walks to you is much better for your peace of mind—and, more importantly, provides a stable income. Good luck.

I’m Saito, a columnist♪ I’d say it’s about being considerate of the other person. If you simply behave normally (and have a reasonable level of education), I don’t think even a beautiful woman would necessarily be dropped after just one meeting. And if she is beautiful, I don’t think things would end after only one or two offers, either.