Tips
Dec 30, 2019 15:18
This content is machine-translated.
I’m unsure how far I should go when a man asks me to take the lead. On the other hand, if I don’t initiate, will he think I’m not into it?
4 answers
Other
I'm Saito, a columnist♪
Not at all.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I’d like that too (laughs).
I think if something feels good for both of you, you should actively enjoy it together.
That said, I hear sexually transmitted infections are becoming increasingly common these days, so in my case, we both get a Partners Check before starting the relationship. I also ask that we keep the relationship exclusive.
After all, good health comes first, and feeling safe and secure is the most important thing (laughs).
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Unless you have experience in the sex industry, I don’t think there’s any problem with being as proactive as you like.
Based on my experiences with ordinary women over the past several decades, some have done certain things—or gone as far as doing things—that I would have thought only women with experience in the sex industry would do.
Unless you have that kind of experience, you don’t need to worry about such behavior coming out naturally.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
I think it’s best to start by feeling things out.
If you get the sense that the man prefers a more proactive approach, I’d recommend taking the initiative more and more.
If he doesn’t seem that way, it’s probably best to respond to what he wants.
That said, men who choose dating types C or D seem to prefer proactive women, so I feel this approach may work well:
- If your dating type is C or D: take the initiative
- If it’s B: wait until he says something