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Dec 29, 2019 21:27
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Meg
Female
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
My papa (a male supporter) messages me every day. He says even little, everyday things are fine to talk about.
We can’t meet very often each month, so it makes me happy because I feel like we’ve grown emotionally closer.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I feel like contacting someone every day might annoy them, so I don’t message them daily.
Other
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
Every day would be too much. Please don’t take up my time.
迷わない70代
Male
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パパ活歴11年目、回答者歴8年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中（笑）
Age: 70 or older
👨 Male
Former Universe member
I’m in my 60s and feeling lost.
I don’t engage in unnecessary back-and-forth.
I suppose that’s the basic principle of this kind of relationship…
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, だて◎ゆめ.
In my case, we exchange one message each way every day.
Just to be clear, it’s not that she’s in love with me, nor do I think I’m getting carried away.
It’s just a little back-and-forth that also serves as a check-in to make sure we’re both okay.
It’s fun! I definitely recommend it（笑).
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, “Paper Airplane.”
With C-type arrangements, we basically only contact each other when we’re meeting.
With B-type, we exchange messages every few days or so—usually I just reply when the woman reaches out.
With A-type, I generally reply when she messages me first. The frequency varies from person to person, but when we do communicate, they respond faster and message more often than women in the other types. If she messages me every day, it feels like things may progress, so I’m genuinely the happiest. I’m doing a huge fist pump inside!
For anything other than A-type, messaging every day is probably too much. However, with someone I plan to continue seeing, communication naturally becomes almost daily during the first few days to a week. I also think frequent exchanges can help build intimacy.