I’m Saito, a columnist♪
The basic arrangement is once a month, for no more than two hours: about an hour for dinner and an hour in a private room.
I have a car waiting at the entrance and get in pretty quickly.
(Except for roundtable discussions.)
Our time is more valuable than anything.
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I’m BB7, a male member.
I don’t pursue women who treat it like a job and insist on an allowance calculated strictly by the hour, so regardless of whether an adult relationship (intimate) is involved, I’ve never paid much attention to how long we spend together.
Sometimes we part ways after just an hour or two, while other times we go out and spend seven or eight hours together. Of course, I never try to drag things out unnecessarily—we decide together. It’s not usually a matter of shortening the date because I’m not interested in her, or doing that after the second meeting. If anything, the length of time depends on both our schedules and what we’re doing on the date.
As for frequency, it’s generally once or twice a month. I haven’t met anyone I’ve wanted to see more regularly than that.
Honestly, I’d love to meet someone I’d want to see more often.
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I’m a male member who goes by Paper Airplane.
My best experience was with a Type C woman: about three times a week, roughly nine times a month at first, then continuing at a pace of about once or twice a week.
For dates after the first, I meet Types A, B, and C whenever our schedules allow—about once or twice a month. Unless we’re going somewhere far away, they usually last anywhere from an hour and a half to four or five hours: dinner only, hotel only, activities like movies, concerts, bowling, karaoke, or arcades, shopping only, running errands, just meeting briefly, or a mix of these. They’re generally shorter than the first meeting.
That said, I also use the time to make sure we communicate well and are compatible. When the first meeting goes well, it often lasts five or six hours or more. If things don’t click, I wrap it up quickly after an hour or two. Once, even though the mood had clearly gone downhill, I was dragged around to various places for over six hours...
As Mac-san wrote before, I’ve really come to feel that with Type C, it’s best to head straight to the hotel as soon as possible. Since then, I’ve become somewhat wary of Type C, and lately I’ve been avoiding them by making offers to Type B and Type A women instead...
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I’m a confused man in my 60s.
The most serious arrangement I had was with a woman registered as Type B. We saw each other for more than half the month, for about two months...
On our second date, just before we entered into an adult relationship (intimate), she said she wanted to continue seeing me—even if it meant moving to my hometown.
Naturally, I turned that down, so we ended up having an even more intense relationship instead.
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I’m a male member based in Seattle.
The shortest was an hour and a half at a hotel. The longest was eight hours for a day trip, since we went to a spa and saw a show at a cabaret club.
The most we met in a month was probably eight days, including a two-night, three-day trip.
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