I’m a female member.

I’m Saito, a columnist♪ Maezawa-san has given a thoughtful answer, so I think it would be best to use that as a reference. Men’s attention is constantly drawn to new women, and they’re introduced to new women, “secret” women, and so on. Sometimes you meet someone you really click with and your outlook on life becomes more positive. Other times, you may feel, “Something doesn’t feel right,” or “Maybe we’re not compatible.” With family, you might try to work things out, but when it comes to a dating club, I’ve come to believe that there’s no need to force yourself to keep pursuing someone. A dating club is a place for fleeting romance. Rather than investing too much time and effort, I think the ideal approach is to casually look for a partner you’re compatible with.

I’m Joe, a columnist. Here’s a small personal experience that may help. I once made an offer to someone and then had to cancel due to my own circumstances. After that, our schedules didn’t line up, and I hesitated because I felt a little guilty. Then the other person sent me a “like,” and we ended up meeting. It might be worth trying that feature. I hope the questioner’s wishes come true.

Maezawa from the Business Planning Office here as well. There are two possible reasons why you haven’t received another offer since then. The first is that, after making the offer, the man discovered something that made him decide not to make any further offers. For example, he may have found out afterward that she works in the nightlife industry, even though he doesn’t want to date women in that line of work. Or he may have realized later that she smokes, or that she has children, despite not wanting either of those things. There can be all sorts of other minor reasons as well. Unfortunately, in this case, you probably won’t receive another offer after the cancellation. The second possibility is that you’ve narrowly missed being selected each time. Sometimes a man has several potential women to choose from and struggles with the decision each time. In that case, he may have just barely ended up making an offer to someone else, while still thinking that he’ll make an offer to you next time. Universe has a huge number of women registering every month, so even if he intends to make you an offer this time, he may end up choosing someone else at the last minute. If this is the second scenario, I think there’s a good chance that a staff member will contact the man if you tell the staff exactly what happened. If the staff didn’t contact him after hearing this, I’d honestly wonder what they were thinking. Once they do, there’s a good chance he’ll make you an offer. That said, if the first scenario applies, or if the man has already left the club, you won’t receive an offer. Either way, I recommend contacting the branch where you registered.

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. I completely understand how you feel. I don’t think you should take a break while leaving things unresolved. The club should have a record of it, so why not contact them and ask? They may well say, “I’m sorry,” but it would be nice to move on with a clean slate, wouldn’t it?（笑）