What would you think if a woman you hadn’t seen in a long time sent you a LINE saying, “Happy New Year! I’d love to see you again!”?
I sent that message to a man I hadn’t seen for six months, but he blocked me, so I was really shocked ( ͒˃⌂˂ ͒)
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
I continue seeing the women who leave a good impression, so any girl I choose not to continue with is either someone who didn’t make a good impression, whose terms don’t work for me, or someone I’m simply not compatible with.
That’s why I don’t feel anything when they send me an event-related message.
I’d probably reply normally, but if they’re thinking about wanting to see me again—and receive an allowance—then I’d probably think, “You should’ve treated me a little better before letting things fizzle out. ^^”
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I always tell women I’ve ended an arrangement with that they can contact me anytime if they ever need anything, so I’m always very happy to hear from them.
I’m happy to meet up for a casual meal anytime, and I’ve actually done so with former partners.
That said, since it’s basically just the usual younger-woman-and-older-man dynamic, I’ll cover the meal, but there’s no transportation allowance like the one offered through Universe.
We just catch up with, “What have you been up to lately?” and “How have things been for you?” It was enjoyable in its own way（笑）
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I’m Hikouki, a male member.
Recently, I received a message from the woman who left me with the worst impression I’ve ever had: “Would you be available to meet on [date]?”
I can’t help thinking that one of her plans with someone else fell through and she’s just contacting me to fill the gap… She’s probably sending the same message to other people too.
I don’t even feel like replying.
After meeting, if a man is slow to respond to your thank-you message or doesn’t message you afterward, he’s probably not that interested.
That said, men are foolish creatures, so they presumably make offers to women they find attractive. Unless the impression was exceptionally bad, if he asked for your LINE contact and your message includes something personal for him, there may still be a chance of meeting again.
Even then, though, if nothing changes, it will probably just confirm for him that you’re “not worth continuing with.”
If you start receiving new offers, I think you should try pursuing the next possibility.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
I think it depends on how things ended.
If the breakup was awkward, he may have gotten angry or annoyed and blocked you. If not, he might be open to meeting again after some time.
I’m not sure which applies here, but generally, it’s best to start by sending a simple greeting and seeing how he responds. If you get a reply, you can take the next step.
I was wondering what you meant by “event LINE,” but I see you meant sending a LINE message around events like Christmas or New Year’s.
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