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Dec 24, 2019 11:52
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It seems she always wants to quit, but she has a personality that makes it difficult for her to say no. The staff member is very persuasive, and she appears to be staying registered while thinking, “Well, it doesn’t really hurt me, and it isn’t much of a burden, so I guess it’s fine.”
What do you think of the staff member’s treatment of this woman from the club’s perspective?
I was extremely angry at the club and its staff for treating women as nothing more than a source of income. Saying that they will never try to stop a woman who says she wants to quit ultimately seems to be nothing more than lip service. How would the club deal with staff members like this?
Also, who should she consult if she wants to receive a sincere response?
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I’m Saito, a columnist♪
It’s only natural to think it’s a well-crafted lie.
But doesn’t that also put women under quite a bit of pressure?
It’s better to start by questioning everything.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
> What do you think of the club’s policy regarding the way that staff member treated the woman?
Apparently, the club plans to terminate her membership.
Even if someone told me, “A gentleman believes a woman’s lies,” I’d probably reply, “Yeeah, I guess you’re right,” while looking into her eyes(笑).
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
There’s really nothing we can do unless we hear directly from the person herself.
For example, if a man tells her he wants her to leave the club, but she actually doesn’t want to quit, I think it’s only natural for her to put the blame on the club.
She might say something like:
“I told them I wanted to quit, but they said, ‘You’re popular in the higher tier and receive regular offers, so we’d really appreciate it if you stayed registered. All you have to do is go on a few dinner dates.’ So I’m staying registered out of inertia.”
I think saying something along those lines would be perfectly normal.
To begin with, if you, the questioner, told the woman that you wanted her to leave the club, that would be grounds for forced removal. But how did the conversation even get to that point?
Normally, if a woman tells us she wants to leave, we ask her why and then process her withdrawal.
If she says the reason is that a man told her he wants her to quit, then that isn’t truly her own decision, so we may suggest possible solutions.
That said, we’re only making a suggestion. If she still says, “I want to quit,” we’ll process her withdrawal.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member in Seattle.
Assuming what the woman said was true and not exaggerated, that’s definitely a problem.
I wish people who aren’t serious would either suspend their membership or switch to Type A. Otherwise, it’s just a waste of everyone’s time.