I’m a female member who recently left Universe Club.
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The other day, my boyfriend questioned me about coming home late and suspected me of cheating. On top of that, it became difficult to balance everything with my studies, and I started feeling burdened by meeting any more new men, so I withdrew from the club.
I was registered for about a month, but I had some good encounters and narrowed it down to three men I was seeing. However, over the past two weeks, they often asked to reschedule because they weren’t feeling well or for other reasons around the New Year, so I ended up frustrated because I couldn’t meet them as often as I would have liked.
Maybe three men weren’t enough… I regret not putting my membership on hold. But I stopped receiving offers once December began, and I thought it might be the same even if I withdrew, so I made my decision and am now conflicted.
Still, I can’t forget the impatience of waiting for an offer, the happiness of being chosen among so many women, and the butterflies I felt at the moment of meeting someone.
My first question is: Is it possible to register again so soon after withdrawing?
Also, during my interview, the staff recommended Type A because I have little experience with men, but I chose Type B because I enjoy sex. However, I lacked confidence in my figure and worried about whether someone as inexperienced as me could satisfy a man, or whether I was really worthy of receiving an allowance. In the end, I couldn’t bring myself to take the step into an adult relationship (intimate). When I honestly explained this to the men, they all understood, and for now we only meet for dinner.
If I register again in the future, would choosing Type B be considered a type fraud? The men are spending a significant amount of their hard-earned money to meet me, so I feel that being with someone whose terms match mine is what makes both of us happy. For that reason, I personally think I should choose Type A going forward so I don’t disappoint anyone.
My second question is: Even though I was previously a member, would I be harshly rejected during the interview when changing from Type B to Type A upon re-registering?
Sorry for the long post. I have no one I can talk to about this, and this site is the only place I can turn to. Thank you in advance.
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Um, I don’t think there’s any problem with going back to the dating club, but…
Are things okay with your boyfriend?
Are you keeping up with your studies?
Why are you doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
There are plenty of ways to find happiness without money. If you keep giving money to a woman who has no clear purpose, the outcome is unlikely to be good.
One way to ruin a person is to keep giving them money. However, I don’t think that applies when they have a goal that will make everyone happy.
That’s what I’ve come to feel after doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for many years.
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Maezawa from the Business Planning Office here as well.
> I just withdrew my membership. Is it possible to register again?
Yes, it is.
If you contact us, we can schedule another interview.
However, if it has only been a month since you withdrew, it may be possible to reactivate your membership without another interview. Please check with the branch where you were previously registered.
> Even though I was a member before, if my type changes from B to A during the interview for re-registration, would I be strictly rejected?
For example, if you would have been rejected as an A at your initial interview and were only accepted because you happened to be a B, then you would be rejected if you were classified as an A when registering again.
That’s because you wouldn’t receive any offers.
However, if we thought you would receive offers even as an A to begin with, you would likely still be accepted as an A this time.
The deciding factor is whether you are likely to receive offers.
> In the end, I never managed to take the step toward an adult relationship (intimate).
If you have never had an adult relationship with anyone, then you would be Type A. Moreover, since you say, “The staff recommended A at my interview because I had little experience with men,” it sounds as though they considered you an A from the beginning, rather than a B.
> I chose B because I like sex.
Even after reading your explanation, I still feel there’s a contradiction. If that is truly the case, I think you should consider moving forward with an adult relationship.
“I’m not confident about my body.” → You’re being invited with that included, so there’s no need to worry about it.
“Can someone with as little experience as me really satisfy him?” → That isn’t what your partner is concerned about.
“Is someone like me really worth receiving an allowance?” → There’s no point worrying about that. If you put it that way, receiving an allowance for dinner only (no intimacy) would be the same thing.
> I can’t forget the frustration of waiting for an offer, the joy of being chosen among so many women, or the excitement of meeting someone for the first time.
We look forward to your re-registration.
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I’m a male member in Seattle.
I think you may be able to re-register if you’re getting close to five offers a month. Try emailing the staff.
Personally, I think option A would be better. You can always switch to B later, so I’d recommend explaining your current situation and starting again with A. Since your boyfriend is getting suspicious, be careful for a while.
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I’m Hikōki, a male member.
I mainly make offers to women with Relationship Type B. Type A is fine too, and if I’m really taken with someone, Type C is also a possibility.
Since you’re concerned about whether you should be Type A or B, I’ll answer specifically on that point.
I think there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you registering as Type B.
The people who might feel it’s a “relationship-type scam” are probably men looking for Type C, right?
Men looking for Type B or A would actually welcome it.
If things progressed easily and effortlessly into an adult relationship (intimate), it would take away all the excitement.
Whether you’re Type A or a Type B who leans toward A, that’s exactly what makes the desire build even more.
There are definitely men who want to build trust with someone like you and enjoy a deep, long-term relationship!
Based on what you’ve written, I personally think you should register as Type B.
If the site had a “B+” category for women who are Type B but lean toward C, I’d say you’re unquestionably Type B—perhaps just slightly closer to A.
From the perspective of men who want to build a long-term relationship based on trust, someone who’s Type B but leans toward C can actually feel more like a scam.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
1. I just canceled my membership. Can I re-register?
I think it should be fine. Since you’ve withdrawn, I believe you’ll need to go through the re-enrollment process again. (Though it may not be necessary.)
2. If I try to move from rank B to A during the interview for re-registration, will I be rejected outright?
That’s a difficult question to answer. Please wait for the club’s office to provide the details.
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