This may be a slightly vulgar question, but I was curious, so I thought I’d ask.
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This is feedback from a female member: I’d really appreciate it if, during men’s interviews, you could ask whether they tend to finish quickly or take a long time, and whether they’re on the larger or smaller side.
I’m not particularly roomy myself, so I have trouble when a man is on the larger side because it hurts. If he’s both large and takes a long time to finish, the pain can honestly feel unbearable.
There have been times when it hurt so much that I couldn’t go through with it, so if I knew in advance, I could decline, and I don’t think either of us would end up feeling uncomfortable.
I’d really appreciate it if you could ask about these two points and include them in the men’s profiles, just as female members’ cup sizes are listed.
I’m a Type C in terms of relationship preferences, so unless there’s something seriously off-putting—like being extremely unhygienic—I generally go to a hotel. But once I receive an offer, it feels awkward to ask something like, “How big are you?” and so on…
Would it be possible to ask these questions and include the answers in their profiles?
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I agree with Ikkyu.
Also, the impression can vary quite a bit depending on how aroused the woman is. From the man’s side, there’s really no choice but to try not to worry about this too much. If it’s painful, it’s best not to force yourself to continue with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
That said, some men keep going for an excessively long time or repeat things over and over, as if to say, “I’m paying an allowance, after all…” Others insistently pressure the woman, asking why she’s stopping after just once.
There really are all kinds of people, aren’t there?
I hope you meet a man who’s a good match for you.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
Since women’s bust sizes are listed, I don’t think it would be that strange to list men’s sizes too.
That said, dating clubs are primarily places that arrange dinner dates, and Universe has strict self-imposed standards, even for content that would technically be acceptable to list. So I can’t say for sure whether they’d be able to include it.
When making an offer, could you ask the club staff to check with the man? I get the feeling they might be willing to ask.
I think most men would answer if asked when receiving an offer. Rather than simply asking whether it’s big or small, though, it might be better to ask for the exact measurement in centimeters.
It may also be unclear whether someone is delayed or premature, so it might be better to ask about the average duration.
However, the staff may refuse to ask, so I think it would be better to bring it up directly when you’re invited into an adult relationship (intimate).
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I’m a male member from Seattle.
Honestly, I wish people would ask about this and include it in their profiles. Then again, I guess I could just write it in my own profile from now on.
Sorry, but I’m quite large and take a long time to finish. I’m incompatible with about one out of every two partners, so when I meet someone with a great personality but we’re not a physical match, I feel genuinely disappointed and bad about it.
If it seems painful for her, I stop before going all the way.
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