I have a question about how to hand over the allowance in an adult relationship (intimate).
After entering the hotel room, I usually take the cash out of a bank envelope fairly soon—before taking a shower—and hand it to the woman without putting it in an envelope.
I feel that handing over the cash loose may seem a little undignified, but I do it because if I hand it over still inside the envelope, she may want to check whether it really contains the agreed-upon amount.
In fact, I thought that having her take the money out of the envelope to count it might look even less graceful, so I hand it over loose, without an envelope, so she doesn’t have to take it out herself.
From a woman’s perspective, what would be the most pleasant way to receive it?
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If you’re indoors, I think it’s fine to hand it over as is. When you’re parting after dinner or there are other people around, though, it may be better to give it in a small envelope.
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I only use an envelope when handing it over outside. Whenever someone brings up breaking things off, they always mistake it for severance pay or something. LOL
Indoors, I hand over the money unwrapped. I fold ¥100,000 in half and tuck it under the bag where it’s visible, so the amount is clear.
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I’m a confused man in my 60s.
Assuming we’re both members of the club… if we’ve built mutual trust and confidence before going up to a room, I wouldn’t want to do—or have done to me—anything so explicit.
I always put the agreed-upon amount in an envelope and hand it over. Whether I seal it or not depends on the situation.
That said, if a woman were to count it right there on the spot, I’d probably end things.
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