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Dec 16, 2019 16:54
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I tend to prefer older women, but I’m wondering what impression younger men give women.
Do some women hesitate to receive financial support from a younger man?
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Meg
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光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m a female member.
I’m in my 40s, but before joining the club, I dated someone in his 20s—18 years younger than me. He was my first younger partner, and I found him incredibly cute, but we were equals. I relied on him, and I also let him lean on me.
Thanks to him, I think I was able to stay youthful myself. In the end, we parted ways with mutual gratitude.
For a woman in her 40s, being able to receive an allowance from a young, dependable man is simply the best.
Other
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
I also dated older men when I was in my twenties, and it was quite an interesting experience in many ways.
I think it would be best to learn from the more experienced women, including how allowance works.
There’s no need to push yourself—just interact naturally.
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👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> How do women generally feel about dating a younger man?
When it comes to a serious romantic relationship, I think many women do care about the age difference.
For some reason, they may worry about things like, “I’m not young anymore, so what about my skin...?” even though the man is meeting them because he doesn’t mind those things.
But if it’s a meeting through this kind of service, I don’t think they’ll be as concerned. Ultimately, it probably depends on the woman’s past experiences.
A woman who has been hurt while dating men around her own age may think, “I’m done with men my age or younger,” and come to prefer older men.
On the other hand, a woman without those experiences may be happy to meet someone her own age or younger.
That said, once a woman has gained a certain amount of life experience, I think she starts seeing the person themselves rather than focusing on whether he’s older or younger.
Wait...
I haven’t really reached any conclusion here, but I suppose this is something that can’t be generalized. You’ll probably find out by making an offer and going on dates.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
That’s a great question.
When I was younger, in my late teens, I went through a phase where I was attracted to women in their thirties. These days, though, I feel the exact opposite(笑)
I think young men are extremely popular with older women. My impression is that women in their fifties and sixties find men in their twenties incredibly cute. They’re practically irresistible.
> Do you think some people are hesitant to receive financial support from someone younger?
Regardless of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I think it would simply make them very happy. I definitely encourage you to give it a try.