Tips Dec 11, 2019 15:50

The other day, I made an offer to a female member and met her.

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This woman registered several years ago—not just one or two years ago—and the photos and videos on her profile were also from several years ago. When I met her in person, she had become quite full-figured, and her face had also become rounder. I got the impression that she was probably more than 10 kg heavier than in the photos. I generally prefer slimmer women, so I was a little disappointed. Would it be difficult to ask members to come in for new photos once a year or once every two years?
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office will answer as well. I can think of a woman who might be the person you mean. From her photos, she was slim but had a large bust—almost like a gravure model (apologies if I’m mistaken). I’ve never interacted with her myself, but I’ve seen feedback saying that she has gained quite a bit of weight recently. The club has probably asked her to have new photos taken, but she may already be aware of the issue and be declining. > Wouldn’t it be difficult to have them come in for new photos once a year or once every two years? I believe the club does ask them about having new photos taken when checking in after six months. However, if they decline, there’s nothing more we can do. On the other hand, if we made it a rule, everyone would be required to have new photos taken, which could make it impossible to interview new women. So, unfortunately, it’s difficult under the current system. If someone’s photos haven’t been updated for over a year, I think it would be best to ask the staff whether they’ve received any feedback saying that she has gained weight.
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I’m Saito, a column writer♪ I agree with Mac—it’s also possible that the photos weren’t taken recently on purpose. In my experience, the staff regularly checked in on how things were going, and sometimes shared feedback such as: “We’ve received information that she’s gained weight since the photos were taken.” “We’ve been told that she looks different from her photos. Are you still okay with that?” It’s true that women need to receive offers in the first place, but unless things continue, it’s not just meaningless—it ends up being a waste of time. I think it’s important to keep that in mind....
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in my 30s and a new member. Since offers are usually based heavily on the photos posted, I can see why this situation would come as a bit of a shock. I haven’t dealt with this much myself, but if the registration and photo shoot took place quite a while ago, it may be possible—depending on the woman—to request a “recent photo” through the club after making an offer. Whether the offer can then be canceled would be up to the club. That said, I imagine it would probably be fine if you immediately made an offer to someone else instead. Some women may choose a safe, generally appealing style when they register, but then change their hairstyle, fashion, or overall look after finding a reliable papa (a male supporter) they want to continue seeing. So yes, it’s definitely something to keep in mind.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. Some members’ photos were taken quite a while ago, but I think there are various reasons why they still haven’t had new ones taken. I believe the club has been contacting them about it. Mac may be right. It might be best not to rely too much on photos that were taken a long time ago.
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Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member. Looks and personality can change quickly when you’re young, so I generally avoid making offers to anyone who has been registered for more than a year.
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