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Dec 9, 2019 16:01
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Sometimes, a female member’s profile says things like “group dates welcome” or “parties welcome.”
Does this mean that if I make an offer and she accepts, she would be willing to attend, for example, a group date with two men and two women, with the group date serving as our first date?
If so, that female member might potentially develop a relationship not only with me, a Universe member, but also with the other man at the group date, who is not a Universe member.
In such a case, I would have paid only one setting fee, yet both “me” and the “non-member man” would end up being introduced to the female member. Is that considered acceptable from the club’s perspective?
Alternatively, if a female member whom I met through the club and with whom I am continuing to see each other says, “Could you introduce me to someone you know who might be willing to become my papa (a male supporter)?,” would it be correct to understand that introducing one of my friends as a “potential papa” would also be acceptable from the club’s perspective, since it would then be a matter of personal relationships?
(This assumes that, due to my schedule and financial situation, I can only see her about once a month; she would like more monthly support, but I cannot increase either the frequency of our meetings or the amount, and I have no particular objection to introducing one of my friends.)
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In my case—or rather, when the person isn’t a member—I have them join first before inviting them to a group dinner.
> (Assuming that I can only meet the woman about once a month due to time and finances, while she would like more monthly support but I can’t increase either the frequency of our meetings or the amount, and I’m not particularly set on introducing her to my friends.)
I feel this may mean something different from a dinner gathering through a dating club.
I think each person should decide for themselves after the relationship has begun. You probably can’t tell these things at the first meeting.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Seattle, a male member.
A lot of profiles clearly state whether group dates are okay or off-limits.
There shouldn’t be any extra charge, right? Some people are even open to bringing a friend along and meeting as a group of four.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here.
I tried searching for “parties okay” and “social gatherings okay,” but no one came up.
I didn’t understand what they were talking about.