I feel there’s an almost impossibly deep gap between dating Types A and B.
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And while women classified as Types B or C can range widely—from nearly A to D—I’d love to hear about everyone’s real-life experiences.
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I’m a new member in my 30s.
I haven’t met that many people, so this is only my personal impression based on the women I’ve met, but I feel there are certain tendencies:
C types seem to be “not particularly opposed to sex itself, but still want to choose their partners carefully.”
B types range from “if I’m going to have sex, I want to choose my partner carefully” to the hopeful expectation that “maybe I’ll meet someone wonderful whom I might actually want to be intimate with.”
A types seem to have a fairly firm stance from the outset: “dinner only (no intimacy).”
One woman who registered as a B type but quit soon afterward said, “I thought I’d be okay with it when I signed up, but when I was actually pressured into an adult relationship, it started to feel like I was ‘selling my body,’ and I realized I just couldn’t do it. It wasn’t right for me.”
Including cases like that, I find the broad range and normality of B types interesting, so I expect most of my future offers will probably be to B types. Perhaps, along the way, I’ll also get to enjoy meeting A types.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I get the feeling that A and B basically take very different approaches to dating.
But then I hear things like:
“Apparently she became intimate with someone from A?”
“Apparently there are scammers on B?”
There seem to be quite a few people who make no sense at all.
It’s like, “Come on, let’s take this seriously…” (lol)
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
From a man’s perspective, there’s a huge gap between A and B. But from a woman’s perspective, many would say the biggest gap is between B and C.
It makes me think that maybe this is what people mean when they say men are from Mars and women are from Venus.
I may be wrong, but for men, the dividing line is whether she’ll agree to it—or whether it’s possible at all—so they see a gap between A and B.
For women, the dividing line is whether she’ll agree to it on the day they meet, so they seem to see a gap between B and C.
From that perspective, it feels like “Confused Man in His 60s” has a pretty good understanding of women. (笑)
You may be thinking, “What? Why are you assuming you’re the one who’s right?”
But if you ask women where the biggest dividing line is among A, B, C, and D, I think many of them would give that answer.
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I’m a lost man in my 60s.
Recently, I’ve become quite taken with relationships with women who are Type A or closer to Type A than Type B.
I make various suggestions to them that don’t involve an adult relationship (intimate), and support them in those endeavors.
These days, I’ve been enjoying experiences I never would have come up with on my own, and it makes me happy to see that they’re enjoying themselves too… Of course, it’s not as though I have no ulterior motives… haha.
So, for me at least, there’s no longer any real divide between A and B.
Is this kind of relationship a little unusual? (^_^;)
P.S. To Mr. Mac:
I wondered who Kabukiza Uemon was, but it turns out he’s a columnist.
Apparently, his recent thoughts happened to be similar to mine. Still, I feel like his approach is a little different… Though I’m not thinking about it that rigorously…汗
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I’m a male member, BB7.
I’ve never made an offer to a Type A, so I can’t really say.
With Type C, I got the impression that many were prepared to move forward with an arrangement without much hesitation.
The problem is Type B. Even if their profile says, “If we click…” or “If he’s a wonderful person…,” they can always hide behind ridiculous excuses like, “I’d say yes if he were in his 30s, tall, wealthy, kind, and looked like Yutaka Takenouchi.” So I think most men are likely to be strung along or shot down. They’re really undercover Type As.
Among the relatively younger ones—teens to early 20s—I feel there are quite a few self-proclaimed Type Bs who are actually undercover Type As.
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I’m Rula, a former male member of UC and a member of the new salon.
The gap between Type A and Type B—I think Nonta-san is exactly right.
Based on my own experience, female members who had been registered for a while and had originally been Type B or C but later switched to Type A were actually easier to approach than Type C women. (lol)
I’m guessing they happened to meet someone who wasn’t very nice through a setup, so they thought, “I’ll switch to A for now and see how it goes.”
Since Type A women receive fewer offers, there’s less competition for men, so they might be worth targeting.
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