I’m a female member, and I have questions about having feelings for my partners and how pleasurable intimacy is.

I’m a BB7 male member. If you met around 100 male members, there might be one you actually came to like. The fact that you don’t fall for men may have something to do with being a lesbian, but if you never considered men as romantic prospects in the first place, they’re simply ATMs to you. There’s no way you’d fall for an ATM. If you completely treat it as work, you’re not going to develop feelings. Some women may not be able to keep things completely separate, but I think you’re someone who can draw that line—in a good way. There are probably male members who don’t care whether a woman likes them or not, as long as they’re enjoying themselves. If both parties’ needs are being met, there’s nothing wrong with that. If a man is looking for genuine feelings, though, I don’t think it will last.

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. This may be a completely off-base answer, but… In all my life, I’ve never met anyone like you. Maybe I simply assumed people like that didn’t exist and failed to notice them. I read everyone’s answers carefully, and they were all wonderful. For me, all I can think is, “Huh… I guess people like this really do exist.” I can’t help wondering what you’d be like if I ever met you.

Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here. That’s a difficult question. I think some men don’t want to fall in love with a woman and simply want to enjoy the physical side of things. However, for those men, adult entertainment is probably more cost-effective, and the women there will treat them professionally, so I imagine they choose to enjoy themselves that way. That said, even when money is involved, some people want to enjoy a human relationship—with the uncertainty of liking or being liked, successfully pursuing someone or not—while still making sure not to cross that line. I think those are the kinds of men who register with a dating club. Some may even cross that line and eventually get married. I believe most women need to have feelings for someone before they can truly become emotionally invested, and I think most of the men registered with Universe understand that as well. > Why do you think it’s possible to fall for someone? I don’t think it’s something you can explain logically. When you can relate to the way a man lives his life or to what he talks about, he may start to look attractive, even if he isn’t conventionally handsome. I think it comes down to seeing someone for who they are on the inside, rather than judging them by their appearance. You may have thought you could only fall for someone around your own age, but it’s entirely possible to develop feelings for someone with a significant age difference because of who they are inside. Of course, personal preferences play a role too. If you don’t find the man’s way of life appealing, you won’t fall for him, and it will simply be about the money. Men understand that, so I don’t think you need to worry about it. But once you learn to see people for who they are on the inside, things may change a little. It’s also possible that you simply don’t understand it yet because you’re still young, or that you’re forcing yourself to put up a wall because you prefer women. > I don’t feel anything at all when I’m with someone I don’t even like. If you’re able to enjoy yourself with a man you do like, then you’re perfectly normal. You’re not incapable of feeling pleasure, so there’s no need to worry. I don’t think you need to be concerned about it. > Can it still feel good for them? If that’s what they say, then I assume it does. If it didn’t, they probably wouldn’t see you again. One way or another, I think these men keep meeting you because you have some kind of appeal. If you ever meet a man you can truly come to like, I think things may change for you.