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Dec 5, 2019 16:21
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🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in my 30s and new here.
I think it’s best to be honest, apologize sincerely, and do it as soon as possible.
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Joe, a column writer.
Instead of taking the time to ask, you should contact him right away.
I can at least understand and sympathize with changing your mind—people are only human—but I really can’t understand why you’d ask for a safe or neutral way to phrase it.
This may be a somewhat harsh opinion, but I hope you’ll understand where I’m coming from.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Whether you tell the truth or say you were told to come home, I think either is fine.
You’re both adults, so I don’t think anyone will make an issue of it.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> What would be the safest way to turn him down?
I think you should simply tell him how you feel right away.
I’m sure he also knows that you’re someone whose feelings can waver. If you explain that, he’ll probably accept it without making a fuss.
That said, the fact that he wants to spend New Year’s with you suggests he’s quite taken with you, and he may even have made preparations.
I think it’s fine to turn him down, but if you spend the time together, your feelings might change again.
I’d just ask that you not cancel at the last minute by claiming to be ill or something—it would be pretty harsh.