Hello. I apparently have quite a lot of experience with men (though I have no experience in compensated dating), and during my interview, a staff member advised me to make that one of my selling points.
However, after reading through questions here, I get the impression that papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) tends to favor innocent women who are still unfamiliar with men.
So I’m worried that if I write too candidly about my past experience with men in my profile, I might actually put people off. I also don’t want to be suspected of lying about having experience in compensated dating. Since I don’t have exceptional beauty or an outstanding figure, I’d like to highlight whatever distinctive qualities I do have.
What do the male members think? I would greatly appreciate your feedback.
I’m Saito, the columnist ♪
Personally, I find innocent women more trouble. lol
I prefer someone like you, questioner.
If the interviewer gave you that kind of advice, I think it’s because there’s demand for that type.
And taking the other answerer’s advice into account as well, I think you’ll at least start getting offers.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
The more you talk about having had a lot of experience with men, the more likely men are to keep their distance, I think.
That said, saying you’re into something a little unconventional can appeal to some men.
If you have a sweet, innocent image, that can also be a negative. But if you don’t, it may work in your favor if it matches a man’s preferences.
For example:
“I’d like to be put in a collar,”
“I’ve always fantasized about this kind of situation,”
or “I’ve tried it just a little.”
If the man happens to share the same preferences, those things may hit the mark perfectly.
It may sound strange that having a lot of experience is a negative, while being interested in trying something slightly unusual—or saying you’d like to try it—can be a positive.
But I think that’s just how men are.
(Of course, I’m sure there are exceptions.)
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I’m Seattle, a male member.
It really depends on the kind of vibe you give off.
If you come across as genuinely innocent and inexperienced, it may be more appealing to leave things as they are.
But if you have a vibe like Mitsu Dan, who recently got married, mentioning your favorite situations or the kind of play you’re good at might make someone feel excited enough to send you an offer.
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