A question from a woman about the age gap between men and women.
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I feel uncomfortable accepting an allowance from an older man when the age gap is small.
(Specifically, around a five-year difference.)
The older he is compared to me, the more easily I can accept it without hesitation.
Maybe it’s because dating someone around my own age doesn’t really feel like a relationship through a dating club?
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I’m Saito, the columnist ♪
This may sound like a strange way of putting it, but I think it’s best to view this as a form of support from someone who has little to no intention of getting married—and keep things transactional.
Among the regional representatives in pageants around me, many have left the dating clubs and gone on to date ordinary men. On the other hand, those at the grand-prize level often end up being financially kept by truly wealthy men, which distorts their sense of money and leaves them drifting indefinitely in a life dependent on men.
Please value your own instincts. Keep firm control of yourself, and I hope you find a wonderful connection through Tamayura Dating Club.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I agree with U.S.T.—I don’t think you need to worry about the age difference.
That’s because this is a relationship through a dating club.
If you’re uncomfortable with it, you can simply decline the allowance or turn down the offer.
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In my 30s, and new to the club
I understand what you mean. When the age gap is small, it can feel a little strange somehow, right?
I think each male member has his own way of viewing the allowance. For example, he may want to support a woman’s dreams or daily life, avoid being asked too many personal questions, or simply show his appreciation for the enjoyable time you’ve shared.
As Maezawa-san mentioned, it may also come down to the difference in income. So as long as the male member is satisfied, I don’t think you need to worry too much about the age gap(^^)
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here.
If he’s older than you, I don’t think you need to worry, even if the age gap is small.
You might feel awkward if you’re the same age, but it may help to think less about age and more about the difference in income—that the person with more should generally pay.
After all, he’s paying because he feels you’re worth it. So I think it’s a good idea to continue becoming someone worth supporting.
Noblesse oblige.
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