In the comment section of my profile, would using emoticons and exclamation marks make me seem more approachable? Or would it come across as too familiar?
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
Either is fine. It’s not particularly important, but I think it’s better to stick with the usual approach.
Rather than focusing on meeting someone new, I think it’s better to place more emphasis on maintaining an ongoing arrangement.
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I’m Saito, the column writer♪
Either is fine. It’s not that important, but I think it’s probably better to stick with the usual way.
I think it’s better to place more emphasis on maintaining an ongoing relationship than on simply meeting someone.
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In my 30s, and new to the club
It’s a difficult one…
Personally, I appreciate seeing things like hobbies that could give us something to talk about when we meet.
You can get a sense of someone’s overall vibe from their video anyway, so I don’t think I place that much importance on the comments in their profile.
On the other hand, if the profile is really long or written with an overly excited tone, I sometimes get the impression that they’re very experienced or that our energy levels might not match, which can make me hesitate a little.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here, with my answer as well.
I don’t like it when people overuse emoticons or exclamation marks, but I think they’re fine when used appropriately.
That said, people’s reactions to them vary widely, so if you want to play it safe, it’s probably best not to use them at all.
Personally, I once used “w” and “ww” when messaging a woman, and she told me, “That feels very 2channel-esque, and it gives me nothing but a bad impression, so you should stop.” So I stopped using them.
I also asked whether “(laugh)” would be okay, and she said that was fine.
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I’m male member だて◎ゆめ.
Rather than using emoticons and exclamation marks in your profile comment, I think it’s better to explain:
What kind of person are you looking for?
What kind of relationship are you hoping for?
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I’m Seattle, a male member.
I guess it depends on her personality.
If she’s around 20 and her appeal is her cuteness, that could work.
But even for women who aren’t like that, is there some kind of contrast that makes them easy to approach?
Either way, overdoing it can make you seem unintelligent. A moderate amount might be fine, though.
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