I’m a female member. I realized that I received more allowance than usual from the man I’ve been seeing.
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The last time I received extra, he mentioned it when handing it to me, so I think he may have accidentally given me too much this time. I’m not sure how I should return it.
Should I say, “There was more than usual, so I’ll return the extra,” and give it back the next time we meet?
Or should I let him know in advance via LINE?
I’d appreciate your advice. Thank you.
I’m a lost 60-something.
I’ve actually handed over the wrong amount before.
I had two envelopes prepared—one for dinner only and one for something more—and although the date ended up being dinner only, I accidentally gave her the wrong envelope.
I realized it right after we said goodbye and was laughing at myself when I received her LINE thanking me for the date. She said she was surprised by how much I’d given her.
I told her not to worry about it and to just accept it, and I never brought it up again.
A thank-you LINE expressing her appreciation is more than enough. If she were to return any of it, I’d honestly feel embarrassed.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
Like the other respondents, I’d suggest contacting him on LINE right away. If you look at it skeptically, he may be testing you.
Alternatively, he may have given you extra as a token of appreciation for the time you’ve spent together because he no longer intends to meet again. But if you’re the kind of person who would ask a question like this, you probably have a good character, so I doubt that’s the case.
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I’m a male member, だて◎ゆめ.
I agree with Seattle.
More than looks or behavior, honesty comes first.
Let’s maintain a good relationship and build genuine trust over time.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> Or should I tell him on LINE first??
I think that would be best.
Rather than waiting until you meet next, I think contacting him right away will leave a better impression.
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I’m Seattle, a male member.
Let him know on LINE first and follow his instructions. Basically, the plan should be to return it when you meet next time.
If you handle things sincerely, you’ll earn his trust and likely build a long-term relationship.
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