Thank you so much for all your answers about men showing me photos of cash and designer brands m(_ _)m

I’m Saito, a columnist♪ Do your best to find yourself a wonderful man! I really like how positive you are!

Maezawa from the Strategic Planning Office here as well. I see—that’s what happened. I never would have imagined there was a man like that among our members. As for the amount, it’s something the two of you need to discuss and decide together. For example—just as an example—some women may prefer to accept an offer that falls short of their desired amount rather than wait until someone willing to pay the full 10 comes along. So I think it’s important to think beforehand about which choice would leave you with fewer regrets. Among genuinely wealthy and sincere men, there are some who, even if a woman wants 10, would turn her down if she asked for 10 right from the start. But if they continue seeing each other, they may come to like her, and the amount could increase from 7 to 10. That possibility is zero with someone who gets angry. But once you learn to properly judge someone’s character, you may find that some men really are like this. Until you’re able to assess people well, one possible strategy is to see someone a few times on their terms, then cut ties if it seems unlikely that anything will change. In the first place, if a man can’t afford to pay, he can simply decline and move on. Getting angry about it makes me think he isn’t really suitable as a club member. In any case, if you send the club feedback—sticking strictly to the facts—you won’t be misunderstood, so I think you can feel reassured.

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. Rather than worrying about something alone, I think most things can be worked out by listening to two or three people and comparing their views with your own. Everyone thinks differently, and you’ll occasionally come across someone whose perspective is completely different. When that happens, it can be helpful to ask others for their opinions as a way to check your own thinking. Don’t worry too much—stay cheerful and positive, have a purpose, and enjoy each day!

I’m BB7, a male member. The moment you think women will be won over by wads of cash and photos of celebrities, you’ve already proven yourself to be a complete idiot. What a pathetic male member. It’s a little disappointing to think that people like this are members too.

I’m in my 30s and new here. A man who gets angry over that is seriously problematic… If anything, it’s probably for the best. I’m sure you’ll meet someone great in the future(^^)