Sorry for the intimate question. I’m currently intimate with two men.

Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. When it comes to tightness, I think people generally see it as either loose or not loose. In other words, it’s not really a choice between loose, average, and good. As long as it isn’t loose, there’s no real problem. After that, what matters is whether she’s sexy in the moment. (（笑）) More broadly, whether she’s naturally sensual, as well as her personality, the way she carries herself, and her mannerisms, may all be important. I feel that it’s the overall package that makes someone appealing and can lead to a long-term relationship. That might make you wonder whether all that training was pointless, but I don’t think it was. For example, if you thought you were average and then happened to have a similar experience with another woman, you might think, “Huh? This feels different.” The training may also have improved the lines of your legs or your hips. I suppose the best way would be to have the chance to compare yourself with other women, but can women go to certain adult services as customers? I’m not really sure > < If that’s possible, it might be useful to compare yourself with others in that kind of setting. I searched and found that apparently there are women who have even arranged for a delivery service themselves: “I’m a woman, but I called a delivery service” https://anond.hatelabo.jp/20150511005551

I’m Saito, a column writer ♪ Speaking personally, I’m not particularly concerned about tightness. Once she’s aroused, things become smoother, and without any foreplay, penetration feels tight anyway. That’s about the extent of it. I honestly don’t care enough to know which of the women I’m currently seeing is the tightest. If anything, I vaguely remember a few women who were looser, but I’ve completely forgotten who they were. As long as the relationship continues, I don’t think it’s really an issue. I can’t imagine ending things just because she wasn’t very tight down there... at least, I wouldn’t.

Man in My 30s—New Member Not every man is looking for “tightness,” so I think some men simply aren’t that interested in it. I’m one of those men myself. To me, the shape and sensation inside, sensitivity, and overall compatibility are more important than tightness. That’s why I’ve had women—who were probably often told they were “tight”—ask me a few times in the past, “Am I not tight?” lol When I heard that, I remember thinking, “Ah, she’s confident because people have told her she’s tight before. But I’m not really looking for that, and being squeezed that hard isn’t exactly what I want...” So I think I gave her a vague answer. lol Personally, when a woman emphasizes how tight she is, it feels a little too much like something out of the sex industry, and it’s a bit of a turnoff for me.

I’m male member だて◎ゆめ. Judging from the wording of your question: > “It’s sexy regardless of how tight you are,” and “It’s also sexy how you relax inside after you climax.” It sounds like your partner feels that your so-called inner muscles are working well. It’s probably not just about tightness—you seem to tighten and relax, with plenty of flexibility, which may be what they find so sexy. The fact that they’ve continued seeing you probably means they like the overall experience, including that aspect.

I’m a male member in Seattle. If he’s a male member of Universe, he’s probably used to judging women, so someone who’s only a little above average might not stand out that much. If things have continued, I think that’s a good sign. Try not to worry about it. How tight you are doesn’t matter that much. Just like penis size, as long as it fits, it’s a minor detail. What matters more is whether you can please and cherish your partner. If you’ve been told you’re sexy, you’re probably an attractive woman who’s above average.