I’m a Type C female member. I’m often not asked about an adult relationship at the first meeting, and we end up parting after just dinner. This happens about one-third of the time. We eat, and if I don’t negotiate anything from my side, they say, “Thanks, I’ll get in touch again!” and we go our separate ways.
This content is machine-translated.
Just when I think they didn’t like me, they invite me out again for a dinner-only (no intimacy) date, so it’s quite common for the next meeting to be dinner only as well. Of course, if they clearly state the terms of the arrangement, I’m willing to pursue an adult relationship. (Sometimes, though, there are men who take me to a hotel without discussing the allowance.)
However, I happened to see some feedback from a man that said, “Wasn’t the girl I met today a Type B?” I assume it was written about me.
Could it be because, during our conversation, he asked, “Have you had an adult relationship with anyone else?” and I answered, “No, I haven’t”? (In reality, I have, but I was too embarrassed to say so.)
Would this count as deceiving someone about my dating type?
I’m worried that he may have written in his feedback to the club that I was difficult to approach about an adult relationship.
I’m a male member, BB7.
Even with a Type C woman, if she looks very innocent or inexperienced, or doesn’t seem particularly sexy, I sometimes wonder, “Is she really a C?” As a foolish BB7, I also get nervous wondering whether it’s really okay to invite her to an adult relationship.
You said that when she was asked, “Have you had an adult relationship with anyone else?” she replied, “No, I haven’t.” If it were me, I might misunderstand that and decide not to invite her to an adult relationship.
That said, this is simply a communication mix-up, so it doesn’t count as type fraud.
Type fraud would be someone who says, “I’m Type C, but I’m not considering an adult relationship at all. I only choose C because it brings me offers.”
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office will answer as well.
I didn’t realize that could happen. I’ll look into why this is happening.
Could you contact us using the form at the URL below, including your club name and addressing it to “Maezawa”?
I can’t guarantee that we’ll be able to identify the cause, but checking your profile and feedback may give us some idea of what’s going on.
https://universe-club.jp/help/contact/
↑ This is the same “Contact Us” form located below the question box.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m a male member, Date◎Yume.
From reading your question, I get the feeling that you’re probably quite innocent and cute（笑）
That’s why I imagine the male members you’ve met may have felt unable to make a direct move, which ultimately led to dinner only (no intimacy) or wondering whether you’d be open to an adult relationship (intimate).
> Could it be because I answered, “I’ve never done this with anyone else,” when we were talking…?
You shouldn’t lie, so of course it’s best to be honest. But next time, if you meet someone and feel that he’s someone you might be interested in seeing, I think it’s perfectly fine for you to ask him something like, “What kind of relationship are you looking for?”
Good luck（笑）
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m a male member based in Seattle.
If it’s a C-type arrangement and this is your second meeting, the man should be the one to make the invitation.
Time is limited, so if you get another opportunity, go ahead and invite him yourself.
Lying too much can lead to misunderstandings, so you might make a better impression by saying something like, “I’ve had other experiences, but if you’re a good person, I’d like to keep seeing you for a long time.”
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
