Q1. Do you all ask about and make use of the feedback after a date?
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Q2. How should I interpret it when a woman has dating experience but there’s no feedback at all—that is, the men leave nothing behind?
Even if I hear how other men felt about her, I ultimately have to meet her myself, talk with her, and judge her personality and compatibility with me based on things like her gestures, expressions, and posture, don’t I? I only use the feedback as a way to build up my expectations—or perhaps the enjoyable anticipation—before meeting her in person. I suddenly found myself wondering how everyone else looks at it, so I decided to ask.
I’m Date ◎ Yume, a male member.
> Q1. Do you listen to and make use of the feedback provided after dates?
I see it much the same way you do.
I can’t make my own judgment until I’ve actually met someone in person.
> Q2. How should we interpret a situation where there’s a dating history but no feedback information—meaning the man left nothing behind?
I take it to mean that he felt there was no particular need to leave feedback.
Perhaps:
1. She wasn’t significantly different from the other women.
2. He felt she was somewhat questionable, but not enough to warrant leaving feedback.
Something like that, perhaps…
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> There’s a dating history, but no feedback information.
In that case, there’s a good chance she was actually a pretty good woman. People generally don’t want others to know about someone good.
So they don’t write any feedback.
Or perhaps she was just average—neither particularly good nor bad.
Negative feedback tends to come in quickly（笑）.
So I think it’s best to assume that no feedback probably means she was a good person.
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