Tips Nov 8, 2019 09:45

I have absolutely no confidence in my body shape…

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People tell me I’m cute, but when I wonder if they’re just being polite, I really start questioning whether I should sign up… I’m trying to lose weight, but it’s not going well, and I’m scared when I think about whether someone like me would even be in demand…
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. > I’m scared to think that someone like me might not even be in demand… There’s a saying: “Nothing ventured, nothing gained.” For now, I think it would be best to contact the club and ask for advice. Even if you lack confidence, if the club tells you, “You’re welcome to register,” then go ahead and sign up. If you don’t receive any offers, you can consider whether you ended up serving as someone else’s backup—and then try again after working on your physique.
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Aizawa from Tokyo here as well. It depends on your body type, but “thin” from a woman’s perspective can be quite different from “thin” from a man’s perspective. I think there are many male supporters who prefer curvier women. You could either register after losing weight, or register now and have your photos retaken once you’ve lost weight. Personally, when you’re unsure, I think it’s best to take action and ask about it first!
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. It would be easier to judge whether you should register after losing weight or go to the interview now if you included your current height, weight, and bust size. Of course, that information alone doesn’t tell us what you look like, so even if I say you should go to the interview, I can’t predict how things will turn out. Still, I think it can serve as a general guideline. Without that information, if you’re worried, you could set yourself a goal—for example, losing 10 kg through dieting before registering. That way, you may not end up feeling too scared to go even after losing the weight.
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I’m a BB7 male member. There’s no way to know whether there’s demand until you actually sign up. I don’t know how overweight you are, but unfortunately, even if your face is cute, being heavy will likely mean a lower ranking and fewer offers. If you’re cute and also busty, though, you may still receive some offers. There are also women who occasionally lose weight so they can register with Universal. Their efforts are recognized and well received by the staff, so they sometimes get recommended to members.
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I’m a UC male member and also a member of the new salon. The textbook answer would probably be: “Men have all kinds of preferences, so don’t worry too much about your body type. Why not register first and see how it goes? If you put some effort into your profile and comments, a man might be drawn to them and send you an offer.” However, since this is a Q&A forum, I’ll be honest and give you a somewhat tough answer based on my personal opinion: “I definitely think you should successfully lose weight before registering!” It’s true that your personality can be understood to some extent from your profile and comments. However, before making an offer, I think men inevitably tend to place more emphasis on looks. Profiles and comments are often used like this: “She’s exactly my type looks-wise, but her profile and comments are awful. I wonder if she has a bad personality. Maybe I’ll hold off on making an offer.” But they’re less likely to be used like this: “She’s not my type at all looks-wise. Oh, but her profile and comments make her seem like a nice person. Maybe I’ll send her an offer.” A woman who is reasonably attractive and, on top of that, has a good personality— That’s probably the kind of woman who is in high demand. I’m sure people will have different opinions, but if you have a cute face, please, please try losing weight. If you’re serious about it, you can succeed. (I lost weight before joining the dating club, too: from 85 kg to 70 kg in six months, and I got my body-fat percentage down from over 30% to 14% haha.) So go register with the confidence that comes from successfully losing weight(^^)/ Unfortunately, I think women who don’t have a good figure are quite likely to be unfairly assigned the undignified role of making women with better figures look even more attractive.
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