I’m the one who asked, “He told me not to meet anyone else from Universe.”
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Thank you all for your answers. I’ve read through them.
The reason I haven’t been seeing anyone besides him isn’t because I’m committed exclusively to him—it’s simply that I haven’t received any other offers, and I was satisfied with the allowance as long as I could meet him once or twice a month. He’s a genuinely enjoyable person to spend time with. The reason we can’t meet is apparently due to his health, although I don’t know the full truth.
I do feel that, if he wants to keep me from seeing anyone else, he should make me feel fulfilled enough that I wouldn’t want to look for anyone else. But if his health really is the reason, I do feel sorry for him, so I’ll wait and see for a little longer. In the meantime, I’ll work on myself and prepare for when we can resume, even though I only receive offers once or twice a year.
Sorry this isn’t really a question. I just wanted to say thank you.
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Relationships through a dating club can be difficult, can’t they?
If you at least have clear communication and know the reason for what’s happening, it’s easier to deal with. But when you’re left feeling your way around, like this time, it can seem completely hopeless.
I’m sure it’s difficult having to think things through and keep trying different approaches, but I believe the most important thing is becoming a woman he’ll want to see again.
We male members are also in a difficult, uncertain situation. If we don’t grow our businesses and continue making profits, we’ll lose our jobs and won’t be able to continue seeing the women we’re dating. So it’s equally important for us to remain men they’ll want to see again.
When you think about it that way, both men and women are facing their own dead ends.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
People like that—kind-hearted people—are wonderful, aren’t they?
But they’re also the ones who end up getting the short end of the stick.
They put up with things over and over… and before they know it, they’ve grown old.
To make sure that doesn’t happen, I recommend keeping a broad perspective.
That said, I also hope you don’t lose that kindness.
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