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In a world where you simply reach out when you feel like meeting, I don’t think there’s any need to worry about it.
I think the other person is just considering letting things “fade out,” as Maezawa said, so there’s probably nothing you can do.
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
If you’ve met this man three times, I assume there was something about you that he liked to some extent. However, it sounds like he may currently be interested in another woman and is hoping things will naturally fade out.
If that’s the case, I don’t think the problem is that you messaged him a few times. It may simply be due to some other factor.
There’s probably nothing you can do right now, so I think it would be best to leave things alone until he contacts you.
If you still haven’t heard back after six months, why not try contacting him then?
Unless you’re someone he has come to dislike, I feel he would probably agree to meet if you got in touch after some time had passed. If he still doesn’t meet you, then I think there must have been some reason he lost interest in you.
It’s also possible that, for some reason, your messages never reached him. After six months, you could ask the club to check whether your message reached him. You could say something like, “You can give him my LINE ID if you’d like.”
This would only be a confirmation, so there’s no guarantee that you’ll receive a reply. However, if the messages failed to reach him because of some technical issue, I think he would respond.
