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Nov 5, 2019 13:38
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Why don’t they just tell the truth from the start? If they’re going to lie, I’d rather they leave it blank in the first place…
Because a false occupation was listed, I ended up saying something slightly rude to a man I met recently.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> I’m concerned that all of it is a lie.
I don’t think that’s the case for everything.
My impression is that about 80% of people write the truth, while around 20% lie. (I haven’t actually conducted a proper survey, though ><)
Many of those who lie are worried about being identified. However, it’s usually not a complete fabrication—they may say something similar, or interpret things rather generously and think, “That should be close enough.”
That said, if they also lie to the staff, we have no way of knowing.
So, just in case, it would be helpful if you could write something like:
“They said something different from the occupation listed on their profile. I was confused when it came up in conversation.”
That way, we can also take note that their actual occupation may have been different.
Still, “all of it” would be an incredibly high rate, wouldn’t it? ><
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
As Mac said in his answer, I also have multiple job titles. For reasons like wanting to look good or avoid being identified, I use the one I think sounds the coolest.
It isn’t my main job in terms of either time or income, but it’s not a lie. When the conversation turns to work, I’m honest about it. No woman has ever seemed particularly suspicious of me.
Reading this question made me wonder if quite a few of the male members are actually in a similar situation.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
In my case, there are no lies in my profile, but since I have multiple industries and positions, I worked out how to present them when I interviewed with the club.
I imagine there are quite a few members like me, so when you first meet someone, it may be a good idea to ask them plenty of questions.
It may just be my personality, but I’ll talk about anything if I’m asked. The club and the people I see know pretty much everything about me(笑)
The issue is whether the person I’m meeting is trustworthy. If I don’t feel I can trust someone, I inevitably end up saying, “I’m sorry.”
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Male member from Seattle here.
I’m only writing the truth. Maybe he had a job where being identified would have caused problems. In his place, I’m sorry.
Men who hide their occupation should provide accurate information as soon as possible when they meet someone for the first time.