Would you still consider reaching out to a woman who’s been registered for about three years? I’m worried that having new photos taken several times might make me look too eager.

I’m Saito, a column writer♪ I don’t mind at all how long you’ve been registered. On the contrary, it sounds interesting—we’d probably have all kinds of things to talk about. That said, it’s also true that many men inevitably focus their attention on new women.

Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. This may not directly answer your question, but if you’re worried about how long you’ve been registered, there’s no need to worry. Right after registering, men browse many different women on the member page. At first, they probably can’t look through everyone, since new women are joining all the time. During this period, they tend to focus on newly registered women. After a while, since they still haven’t seen everyone, they gradually start looking at women who registered earlier. Even if several years have passed since you registered, if you’re their type, they may make an offer thinking, “Oh, so she was here.” I believe that’s why women still receive offers even years after registering. Once they get past that stage, they probably only look at new women, so offers from those men will stop coming. However, new men are joining every month. They’ll browse profiles in the same way, and if you match their preferences, you’ll receive an offer. Women who continue to receive offers consistently even after being registered for a while are attractive in their own right. Having new photos taken won’t make them seem overly eager; if anything, it helps prevent any gap between their photos and how they look when meeting in person.

I’m Basil, a male member. I haven’t made any offers to women in their third year, but I’ve made several offers to women who’ve been around for over a year. Some were receiving their first offer, and finding them felt like discovering hidden gems. Overall, they seemed to understand that they’d been given a valuable opportunity, so they were reasonable and not overly pushy. By around their third year, women in the higher classes seem to keep going because they can’t let go of the glory they enjoyed at their peak. They also seem more prideful, which makes me hesitate. I feel like there may be some real gems among the lower-class women.

I’m in my 30s and a new member. Like BB7, I don’t think I’m particularly pushy. In a way, I feel it’s easier to negotiate with women who are experienced. I also tend to be well-liked by veteran women who have met various men, so if anything, I see that as a positive. I’m sure there are all kinds of male members, too.

I’m a BB7 male member. I wouldn’t say I’m overly aggressive about it. That said, if a woman seems popular, I assume she’s met quite a lot of men, has become more discerning, and may already have several ongoing arrangements with papas. In that sense, I hesitate to make an offer because I feel there’s no place for me anymore. However, if the staff have written positive comments about her, or if she has written something herself that comes across favorably, I might consider making an offer. Occasionally, after a woman has had new photos taken, the staff comment that she’s “become jaded.” I tend to avoid women like that.