I have a large surgical scar on my upper body due to an illness.
Before things progress toward an adult relationship (intimate),
I always tell the man about it.
So far, no one has ever turned me down because of it.
They've said things like:
“Anyone can get sick.”
“Hearing that doesn't change how I feel.”
“If I can make you feel good, that won't matter.”
I've been fortunate enough to meet kind men who accept me completely.
Even though I have scars on my body, I also make sure to keep working on showing my appeal as a woman through other aspects—my appearance while still dressed and my personality.
However, what do men really think?
Of course, I understand that a beautiful body is attractive.
But I would like to hear your honest feelings.
【Question for the staff as well】
During my interview, I was asked whether I had any scars on my body, and I answered honestly.
When men view my profile, is any information about this disclosed to them?
Or is it reflected in my class when the women are ranked?
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office will answer as well.
> When a man views my profile,
> is any information disclosed to him?
Yes, it’s listed exactly as you tell us.
So if you simply say, “I have a large scar,” that’s how it will be written.
If you explain, “I was seriously injured in an accident, and I have a scar about ___ cm long in this area,” then that will be written as well.
> Is it reflected in my class rating?
Scars in areas that aren’t visible probably won’t affect it.
If they’re in a visible area, however, there’s a possibility that they may be taken into consideration.
> But what do the men really think?
I believe it’s pretty much as they say.
Some men may dislike tattoos that someone chose to get themselves, but if the scar was acquired for reasons beyond her control, I think they would generally accept it.
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I’m Saito, a columnist♪
If you have enough appeal to make up for it, it shouldn’t be a problem at all.
There are models with similar scars who can’t wear swimsuits, and they seemed to have a particularly hard time because of it.
(That’s why I support them.)
In general, there are plenty of kind members, so please keep working on yourself.
I’m rooting for you!
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I’m a male member, Seattle.
It’s disclosed in the woman’s profile as part of her information.
I’d rather know from the start so I can mentally prepare. Personally, tattoos or lots of piercings scare me more.
The wording may not be ideal, but visible scars make me feel sympathetic. I might even be more inclined to support her than if she had no scars at all.
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