I’ve been fortunate enough to meet some wonderful people, and I’ve been seeing four of them regularly for about two years now.
The generous allowances, the wonderful dates in lovely settings every time, the romantic conversations… not a single thing to complain about.
I’m truly grateful to them and respect them as people as well.
Still, every so often, I’m overcome by feelings so unbearable that I just want to throw everything away.
Even so, have I simply grown tired of relationships that ultimately come down to money?
Do any of you ever feel this way?
How do you deal with these overwhelming feelings?
I’m a male member in Seattle.
Four may simply be too many, and you might be worn out from the time and energy involved. How about narrowing it down or finding a boyfriend as well?
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It’s not that I’m dissatisfied—I just feel like there’s no excitement anymore.
That’s how we men end up looking for a thrill through dating clubs. Even when we’re continuing with a wonderful woman, we still make an offer to someone new.
Thinking, “I kind of want some excitement.”
When the pursuit of stimulation goes too far, some people may even end up committing crimes involving drugs or stimulants.
It might be a good idea to calm your mind at a temple or by trying a fast.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here.
> Does anyone else ever feel this way?
People seem to think I have nerves of steel, but I’m actually quite sensitive. (笑)
That said, I’ve never felt that way myself.
However, I imagine many women do feel like that. Sometimes I wonder whether people with wrist-cutting scars, for example, are dealing with certain emotions in that way.
I think everyone has their own way of processing those feelings.
You could even go out at the hour of the ox and drive pins into a straw doll. (Too old-fashioned?)
Trying to clear your mind and focus your spirit might help, too.
You could work up a sweat at the gym,
or even indulge in some serious eating and drinking.
It might also help to have a man you can meet anytime, so you can see him on short notice when you need to.
I hope you find a method that works for you.
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