If a man posts a detailed public profile, will women reject the setting themselves if they’re not interested, even when he makes an offer?

I’m Saito, a columnist♪ Just like everyone else here, I’ve never been turned down. Like you, I don’t want to waste my time, so I won’t make an offer to someone with Dating Type B unless there’s a particular reason. I feel that whether you can avoid a person to avoid depends less on their profile and more on your own judgment when choosing.

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. I’ve written my profile in fairly specific terms. I can’t go into too much detail, but it’s generally along these lines: ① The kind of woman I’m looking to date. ② The kind of man I am and the kind of approach I intend to take in the relationship. I state that if someone isn’t comfortable with either of these points, they should decline my offer. When creating my profile, I received guidance from the club and had it reviewed before publishing. As a result, I expected that practically every offer I made would be turned down, but… I was declined twice last year, and not at all this year. Except for one woman whom I suspect misrepresented her relationship type, the women who accepted my offers have generally dated me in exactly the way I’d hoped.

East Customer Loyalty Group Aizawa from Tokyo here as well. Some male members include their preferences in their profiles and state that women who don’t fit them should feel free to decline. There are also cases where women turn them down, saying they don’t think they’re a good match, so this can certainly be an effective way to use your profile. That said, of course, you cannot include statements that violate laws or regulations, such as: - “Someone who will definitely enter into a relationship with me” - “Someone who is comfortable with an allowance of ○○” Please keep this point in mind. I believe there are two main reasons men use their profiles: those who want to make women feel at ease, and those who want to communicate their own views in advance.

Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here. You’re free to choose how you participate and enjoy yourself. However, if your goal is to avoid wasting money and time, I feel you’d be better off pursuing this somewhere other than Universe. Everything has its strengths and weaknesses. You might be able to enjoy a more efficient experience at an adult entertainment venue, with less wasted time and money. You may also be able to find women who match your preferences, receive better service, and have a more satisfying experience. With Universe, part of the fun is figuring out how to win someone over after meeting her. That may require some effort. Some men work out at the gym to improve their physique, while others think about how to increase their chances of success. Whether you consider that a waste of time will affect how much you enjoy Universe. That said, we also offer Relationship Type D to accommodate a wide range of men. Wanting to avoid wasting time by making offers to Type C or B women is contradictory. It seems you should make offers to Type D women instead. Writing something direct in your profile and then making offers to women who don’t like direct approaches—Types A, B, or C—seems questionable to me. Of course, Type D women also have the right to decline. If your concern is improving your success rate, you’d be better off working on yourself or, as I mentioned at the beginning, going somewhere else where you can have a more enjoyable time. I think it would be helpful to reconsider where you’re best suited and what exactly you’re looking for.