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Oct 22, 2019 11:00
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I’m Saito, a columnist♪
There are quite a few.
Honestly, it’s fun, and I enjoy it. I even end up giving them a little extra allowance. lol
But… not to put too fine a point on it, whether I’d want to see them again is another matter.
So I usually don’t continue things—they either end after one meeting or I disappear.
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I’m Joe.
Not necessarily a bad thing, but personally, I haven’t had good experiences with women who come on strong physically from the very beginning (tears).
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Aizawa from Tokyo here as well.
It depends on how much, but if it’s just a little physical contact, I might take it as them being friendly and think, “Maybe they don’t dislike me,” so I probably wouldn’t feel bad about it.
But once it goes too far, you can see how desperate they are, and it starts to feel rather creepy.
I think it’s important to use everything in moderation.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here.
I think it depends on the situation. If you’re alone together, I don’t think it would be that much of an issue.
If anything, we’ve received more survey responses from women saying they disliked it when the man started touching them during the meal.
I haven’t really heard of women initiating physical contact, but if he’s the kind of man who likes being touched, he might actually welcome it.
Of course, not every man is like that, so you’ll need to feel him out.