The person I’m seeing has gotten busy, so we’ve been meeting less often, and I’m starting to lose feelings.

Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. > Could it be that the gentleman isn’t like that? I think that may be the case sometimes. However, there are also times when he’s genuinely busy. It’s not that time of year yet, but December, for example, is known as a particularly busy month, and many people become occupied with work. It’s also possible that his workload suddenly increased. So there’s no way to know which it is. (In some exceptional cases, he may have less financial room to meet and be reducing the frequency for that reason.) Even if you can’t tell whether his feelings have cooled, you can probably tell whether your own feelings have cooled. If that’s how you feel, I think it may be best to take a short cooling-off period or look for someone new.

I’m Saito, the column writer♪ I agree with Seattle-san. You don’t have to push yourself. If your feelings cool off, you can simply stop. I don’t contact them first, so when they reach out, I just casually assume they need money and fill in my schedule accordingly. Some women meet with me regularly every month, while others only get in touch when they feel like it. I also try not to make them overthink things.

I’m a male member based in Seattle. If you’re meeting less often, I think you’re both starting to lose interest. I’d keep this arrangement going for now while looking for someone else.