Would a man who strongly wants an overnight stay be put off if I asked for a higher allowance than I’d get for intimacy followed by parting ways?

I’m Saito, a columnist ♪ I don’t get turned off, but basically, I’m not a fan of staying overnight. About 20% of the time, I’d rather just pay the allowance and have them go home without intimacy.

I’m Joe, the column writer. Of course it’s a bit of a turnoff (lol). But from a woman’s perspective, it’s a perfectly natural thing to ask for, right? So whether it leaves him feeling deflated or not, go ahead and ask. I only have one request, though. Even if you have to fake it (though really, you shouldn’t lie), could you give off the vibe that says, “I want to stay the night too!”? So, after watching the South Africa match with Mai-chan and feeling utterly crushed, we’re heading off for an overnight stay.

Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. > Would he be put off? I think he probably would be. I understand that men know these relationships with women involve money, but when the conversation turns to things like how much for a certain amount of time or how much per meeting, some men may start to feel that the woman prioritizes money above everything else, and that can be a real turnoff. I think the same applies to discussing how much you’d want for staying overnight this time. That said, this is only a general observation—there may simply be many people who feel that way. Ultimately, it comes down to the two of you discussing it together. Neither of you should have to put up with something you’re uncomfortable with. I think it would be best for both of you to talk things through properly and aim for an arrangement that you’re both comfortable with.